Lying is done with words and also with silence.

What's a girl supposed to do when the one person she wants to go to for comfort is the same person that is making her feel bad?

A piece of advice to any man who stumbles upon this blog: All you have to do to make your girlfriend/wife feel better is make a little effort. Words are nice, but they are also easy. Go ahead and say all the things you think she needs to hear, but they won't make it better. You have to do something to show her that you're serious. It doesn't have to be elaborate or expensive (actually, it doesn't have to cost anything.) In cases like this, actions really do speak louder than words. A little thought and effort can go a long way. You know she'd do the same for you.

A final thought from one man who knew what he was talking about:

"When in doubt, tell the truth."
-Mark Twain-